Career Coaching and what does it mean to be Recruiter Ready? The rules of job seeking have changed! Career coaching ensures you'll have a resume that recruiters and hiring managers love, LinkedIn profile that attracts views, job search tactics that will save you hours of time and grief, and interview coaching to ace [...]
Coaching and being with emotions How a coach shows up when a client is feeling emotionally raw or senses an emotional block can make a big difference in how a conversation unfolds. In Cal Banyan's book, The Secret Language of Feelings A Rational Approach to Emotional Mastery he delivers a master course in how feelings [...]
I believe in person-centric, client-led coaching around what it means to be a human being and how to see life in a way that works usefully. There are many books, mental models, and schools of thought about "how we are" as human beings. Sometimes, I have gleaned something from a book that can be [...]
When sharing experiences with one another it is easy to believe we are communicating in literal terms. Closer examination reveals that most communication is abstracted into metaphor. Our life is shared with others through both subtle and colorful abstractions. I’ve been exploring, studying, and training in transformational modalities for nearly two decades. Figures such as [...]
Have you been told you are fault-finding, overly critical, or a bummer to be around? Odds are you are using a mismatch sorting strategy and it is affecting your life. This mindset can prevent joy and connection from happening, leading to loneliness, frustration, and maybe even depression. Sometimes finding what's wrong is a valuable skill, and in [...]
Even smart people sometimes need to "get unstuck." Part of my coaching practice is helping clients to move behavior from the “automatic” to the “aware” parts of their brains. There is plenty of scientific research supporting the neurological basis of our behavior. We can, indeed, make choices that change our thinking and thus alter the structure of our brains. Change [...]
The Insidious Power of Negative Sentences Negative sentences have a very powerful effect on human consciousness. Structuring sentences in our minds is a habit that is built from years of practice and reinforcement from family and peers. In fact, the habit of negative sentences and thoughts pushes away people who are positive. Negative sentences literally create [...]
Recently I was visiting Portland, OR with my family and found myself at Powell's World of Books (If you've never been, please get there - the place is AMAZING). I ended up with a little stack of books related to my field, and really enjoyed NeuroLogic: The Brain's Hidden Rationale Behind Our Irrational Behavior by [...]
In my work as a coach I have learned much about how to ask good coaching questions. Questions are at the heart of coaching - the sort of questions that as an individual we don't always know how to ask ourselves. If we knew the right thing to do immediately, we'd likely just do it. We [...]